I have cancer.
There. I typed the words. The rest ought to come easier.
It’s non-Hodgkin lymphoma, described by the National Cancer Institute as “a disease in which malignant (cancer) cells form in the lymph system.”
“Malignant” is bad enough. Then comes that other word, “cancer.” In parentheses. Punch, slash, kick.
There are worse cancers, certainly. And the oncologist said mine appears to be low-grade.
Still. Cancer.
The diagnosis solved a mystery, making it the rudest of blessings.
I’ve dealt with puzzling and increasingly painful symptoms for 19 years, symptoms that a half dozen neurologists after their many shocks, jabs and scans couldn’t explain. They all labeled my symptoms “idiopathic,” which sounds smarter than “they dunno.”
But they meant “they dunno.”
Ever frustrated, I saw a seventh neurologist in January. He spotted a curiosity in blood test results, called it “concerning” and referred me to the oncologist.
The oncologist ordered more blood tests. Then a 24-hour urine test that required – yikes – a jug in our refrigerator. And next a bone marrow biopsy, about as fun as barbed-wire undies.
She then called with the result. My B cells clone themselves too enthusiastically and then attack my nerves. A kind of non-Hodgkin lymphoma.
Damn. Not an answer I like.
But it’s an answer – the end of “they dunno” and the start of a regimen that the oncologist said probably will help.
So, there it is. My rudest and most unwelcome blessing.
Cancer.
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Jeff,
I’m so sorry to hear this. You have a hell of a battle in front of you. But you are smart, tough and resilient. You have many, many days of love and laughter in your future. Stay strong my friend.
The shock of your essay is ameliorated somewhat by the sweetness of “Wings.” May you be blessed with such caring as that little mouse and bird found in each other. May you soar to healing. Sending lots of hugs, Jeff.
Darlene, thanks so much. I’m glad you liked the video. I thought it was sweet.
Melinda, thank you for your encouragement and the words of resilience.
Jeff
I’m sorry to hear this news. A friend of mine had this diagnosis many years ago, and he fought it off quickly and was playing basketball with us pretty soon afterwards. I hope the treatment isn’t too awful, given that your case appears as light as cancer ever is. My older son battles his cancer with an enthusiasm that is baffling. Another friend from HS is battling a recent diagnosis. You will be in my prayers. Blessings to you.
Thank you, Steve. The Cancer Club is bigger than I knew, as I’ve learned in the past few weeks. Your prayers and blessings mean a lot to me.
Jeff, Byron and I are so sorry to hear this. We are thinking of you and your family.
Thank you, Hilary.
Jeff,
I am so very sorry to hear this news. Cancer sucks honestly; I’ve been part of the “C” club myself (a different cancer) and now nearly two years cancer-free. I am glad you now have answers; the not knowing is hard. With answers come potential solutions. You’ve got this Jeff!!! Stay strong… one day at a time. Sending good thoughts, prayers, healing vibes, etc.
Best,
Dennis Meske, Fellow Jammer (and Transport Agent)
Glacier National Park, 1981
Dennis, thank you — for sharing your experience, for words of encouragement, for sending healing vibes. Go Jammers!
Sorry to hear your news. I hope the diagnosis results in treatments that bring better health. Wishing you good healing.
Thank you, Suzanne.
Jeff,
Connie and I are so sorry to hear this. What I really want to say is, this sucks! The treatments actually do work. Connie’s brother was diagnosed with the same thing a couple of months ago. I think he had 4 treatments ( I don’t know exactly what they were), but he’s been declared in remission. Hang in there and please give our love to the family.
Thank you, Mark. My treatments have started, and I do already feel a little better. The doctor is optimistic, and I’m channeling her vibe. Cheers, my friend.
Jeff,
Cancer sucks, and I’m sorry you have to go through this. Hang in there and know a lot of people are pulling for you and praying for you.
Terry Hyland (old WH gang)
Thank you, Terry!